Follower’s Experience

        Hello everyone. This is a Personal Experience from one of my followers. She decided that her username would be: “RollyPolly96”. Remember everyone, if you need advise on a specific thing and down know who to tell it to, e-mail me or text me and I will gladly post an advise. Just send me your problems, give me your made-up username and I will post it and tell you personally when I have posted the advise so you can see it.

 

 

Here is ‘RollyPolly96’ Personal Experience:

“Currently I am beginning to get to know this guy from my school and we are really good friends. We have both confessed that we like each other but we haven’t kissed or have gone out on a real official date. I mean, we have gone out but just as friends. The thing is that people have started noticing that we have been spending too much time together and they have started questioning me about him. Things like ‘Are you guys going out?’ or ‘Since when are you guys together?’ and it has driving me crazy! The point is that we talked about it and we decided to ignore the comments people are making and continue our ‘relationship’ like normal. That’s when everything gets worse. My friends stopped talking me like they used to because they didn’t like when I didn’t tell them about the guys and when they talk to me its only to ask me about him. And now all the drama comes tumbling down. One day my friends huddled around me and starting saying that they saw my ‘Boyfriend’ talking to another girl. That did shock me a little bit but since we were not together, it didn’t bug me as much. What did bug me was that my friends were always in my business. I went to talk to him and we sorted things out and it was all ok but I need advise. What should I do about my friends and what should I do with this ‘Relationship’ I have with him?”

Well, Rolly, that is a problem that teenagers are almost always going through. from what I read. You did the right thing on talking it through with this guy and if he was mature enough to sit and talk about it with you then he is a keeper.

 

 

My advise?

 

“Every relationship begins with a friendship. And the key to every successful  relationship is communication and if he is up to talking with you about the problems between you two, that means he is mature enough for a real relationship. Don’t end the special relationship you have with him because he does seem like a good guy and If you decide to only be friends it wouldn’t mind because you have a supper friendship to land back on. About your friends and how they act towards the drama? Well, all I can say is to ignore the comments and the next time they ask you about that topic you confront them and tell them that you don’t want to keep hearing about it and to lay off the topic. If they don’t like that well that literally means that all they care about is the drama and getting in everyone’s business. But if they are real friends that means that they really care about and they would lay off the topic.”

 

 

That is my advise to you, RollyPolly96, and I hope this solves all your problems and remember, a real man will understand and will tolerate what ever is needed to keep something they really care about. A mature man will sit down and talk about your problems. Real friends will be with you in the good times and bad times and they will always help you through thick and thin. But just relax and let everything unravel by it self and you will see that it will all be worth it! 

“Popularity Is A Social Disease”

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“Popularity is a social Disease”

This is an advise based on the poll I made a week ago. That poll was questioning your opinion a bout “Popularity”. If you haven’t taken this poll is 2 – 3 post under this one.

“Popularity is just a social status used to judge you by the way you are”

That is the answer that had more votes in the pole. For you who chose “I wish I was popular” and “If you are not popular, you are a no body” or NOW decide that THAT is your opinion towards “Popularity”, then you should really continue reading this blog post.

Currently I am a high School student so I know what I am talking about. I will now talk about my point of view toward high school and all its “tags”. My point of view in high school? My point of view is the outcast group, the geeks, nerds, losers; any social status considered the lowest. That’s me in my school and, honestly, its bearable but sometimes it gets way out of control.

My typical day at my school?

Well, once I get to school some of my “outcast” friends greet me and we talk for a while. Once the bell rings I walk toward my homeroom and take the things out of my locker (the lockers are inside the classrooms.) That’s when some of the name calling begins and the occasional bumping into my shoulder on purpose. I then sit down on my chair and some girls take pity on me and start talking to me. I just ignore them and out my head down. The day drags on and I get into some fights with other girls and other classes are the best of them all. School for me isn’t that bad but we all get bullied by popularity and society standards in school.

“Being ‘popular’ isn’t the best thing in high school. Being an ‘outcast’ isn’t the worst thing about high school either. High school is all about what you make of it with your friends. Popularity, in definition, is when people know you and cherish you and know everything about you. Being popular isn’t about how many people know you and how many people you are ‘friends’ with;  Actually, Popularity is just invented by society to exclude other people but, if within your group, you are accepted, then doesn’t that make you popular too? Think about it. If you feel comfortable within your own group of friends, then that’s all it takes to make your life better in high school. Make memories and high school will be with it. Popularity doesn’t matter anymore, and being if being an outcast mean you get to have real friends that are with you in the good times and bad times, then in that case, I would rather be an outcast all the way.”